‘To err is human; to forgive, divine.’ – Alexander Pope
It is a fact that everyone makes mistakes. This is part of human nature. However, there are two kinds of mistakes. The first one is simply a mistake and the other kind of mistake is, a ‘mistake plus’. The first kind of mistake fails to give you anything. A mistake plus seems to be a mistake in the beginning, but in the end it becomes an experience of gain.
When one makes a mistake, there are two possible kinds of responses. The first response is to become regretful, and disheartened after every mistake. He will be a victim of stress. It is also possible that he may lose courage and be unable to do anything else again.
This is the negative aspect of making a mistake. However, there is also a positive aspect. That is, it encourages you to engage in introspection and self-reassessment. A positive mistake is bound to activate your mind. It will lead to brainstorming. In return, it will emerge as a natural gift for you. It will increase your creativity and produce a thinking process that may lead to the capacity for better re-appraisal of yourself and an increased ability to analyze things. A negative mistake becomes a positive mistake when it awakens your mind. It thus enables you to re-plan your life. A positive mistake makes a man a superman.
German psychologist Alfred Adler observed: “One of the wonder-filled characteristics of human beings is their power to turn a minus into plus.”
A mistake is an error or fault resulting from poor judgement. If you think positive, your mistake will motivate you to try to find out where you went wrong. This kind of rethinking will open up new possibilities for you. Thus, in an indirect way, the mistake will become a means to climb to new heights of success in life.
The condition for turning a negative mistake into a positive one is that, you should not take a mistake to be a full stop. Rather, one should consider a mistake as a comma.
Remember that in this world the quantum of mistakes is limited, but the quantum of achievements is unlimited.
–Speaking Tree
Worth a read!! I like it:))
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Thank you, Upen!! I’m glad you like it 🙂
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A beautiful view on Making Mistakes and their aftermath. Alfred Adler wisdom is indeed profound yet when mistakes have to happen they do happen (may not even be due to poor judgement) and here comes the test of leadership. A good leader does not clutter his mind and grieve but thinks calmly and as you rightly said “rethinking will open up new possibilities..”. 🙂
Thanks Nimmi.
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I agree with you here, when mistake have to happen they do happen, however, sometime it happen because of poor judgements too. Thank you, Dilip 🙂
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(In this world the quantum of mistakes is limited, but the quantum of achievements is unlimited.)
Well said Nimmi:)
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I’m glad you like it. Thank you, NL 🙂
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This post is a bowl of wisdom Nimmi 🙂 . I love the part where you mentioned humans have the ability to transform minuses into pluses, I hope remember it 😉 .
You into psychology?
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I love that subject, and know a bit about human psychology too 🙂 Thank you so much dear, for loving this work of mine. I think humans are the most powerful beings in this world right now. They have the power to change anything, if have a dedication to do so.
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Of course! I believe thats what makes ua humans, different too, that ability to think and change 🙂
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🙂 True
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Lovely post and wise words. Always stay positive, ‘mistakes are the stepping stones to wisdom’ 🙂
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Thank you. Yes, positivity in anything or situation can change everything 🙂
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There are no mistakes. All lessons .
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Indeed…
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It takes lot of efforts to transform that negative to a positive . and we all learn a great lesson in the transformation phase
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Yes, and that transformation phase is your learning phase 🙂 So, Would say, Keep doing mistakes and keep learning 🙂
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If u don’t do mistakes u will not learn n grow. So never regret over a mistake … That’s ok sometimes .we are all human and the end of the day. 🙂
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Indeed 🙂
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Your blog proves that less is more ONLY because what you say is so rich with honest feelings that most people (especially the device-addicted) seem to have cast off lately. What’s going on out there these days anyway? The horrible predictions of machines taking over our lives is ALREADY TRUE isn’t it? YIKES!
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Ah!! Thank you so much, Doug, for such lovely encouraging words. I try my level best to be as honest and rich as possible. And these are just my feelings which are coming out in my words. Yes, you are very right, nowadays machines are taking over on brains or I could say thinking power.
Matter is how much we can do to keep our brains in process 🙂
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I like the positive feel of your words and thoughts. Perfect quotes led the reader to very good wisdom.
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I’m glad you liked my work. Thank you so much, John!! Welcome to my little world 🙂
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You are welcome and thank you.
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Reblogged this on johncoyote and commented:
Good wisdom and thoughts. A amazing writer.
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Ah!! Much Appreciated, John. I’m just writing down my feelings. People like you are my motivators. Thank you so much 🙂
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Nicely penned. Everyone makes mistakes but many just try to blame it on someone else or they just ignore it and move on and there are few who actually ask this powerful questions ‘Why?’. They ask themselves about why this mistake happened and what life lesson can be learned from the mistakes. If there is one thing that we should take away from our childhood, it should be the curiosity in everything that we do. As I said earlier in my blog that successful people do not have more brains, they just have better answers. In my opinion, there is a fine line between faith and blind faith; that line consist of this simple question ‘Why?’ because when we ask this and be honest to ourselves, we will get answers that you cannot find anywhere.
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Thank you, dear! You said it right, curiosity in knowing everything is good and sometimes it can teaches you many lessons too.
I like this line,”successful people do not have more brains, they just have better answers.” Great one and so true! ☺ However, I think mistakes are the Good, if you know how to deal and take it.
Thank you one again 😊
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Exactly right, mistakes are not the problem. It is how some people deal with them.
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Indeed!! 😊 💖
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